Rewritten Title:
“From Family Pressures to Divorce: A Young Woman’s Story of Misunderstanding and Choice”
A Marriage Born from Family Ties
A young Iranian woman has opened up about her decision to divorce just one year after marrying her cousin, citing family pressure and a lack of understanding as key reasons.
In an interview, the woman, who chose to remain anonymous, explained that her parents had strongly encouraged the marriage despite her initial reluctance. “Meisam was my cousin, and when my aunt came to propose, I said I didn’t want to marry yet. But my parents insisted, and I trusted their judgment,” she said.
The Breaking Point
The couple’s relationship quickly deteriorated due to Meisam’s distant behavior. “Even though we were married, he didn’t seem to care about me,” she recalled. “When I wanted to visit his home, he demanded advance notice. Then one day, I called him, and a girl answered his phone.”
When questioned, Meisam allegedly became aggressive, dismissing her concerns by claiming the interaction was work-related. “I’m not a sensitive person, but lying was unacceptable,” she stated firmly.
Mutual Agreement to Separate
Both parties ultimately agreed that their marriage was unsustainable. “Meisam admitted we couldn’t be happy with such different views on life,” she shared. While her father supported her decision, her mother cut ties with both her and her sister in disapproval.
A Reflection on Familial Influence
The case highlights the challenges of familial expectations in marriage decisions. Though the woman regrets not standing her ground earlier, she remains resolute in her choice, emphasizing honesty and mutual respect as non-negotiable values in a relationship.
Source: Intitar
